Day 87 - Relief
Relief is also a common emotion associated with grief, especially if your loved one was in pain or suffering.
Janet Paschal’s grandfather had Alzheimer’s disease. She says, “We had watched him change, and it was a very slow loss, a very slow process. So there was a sense of relief when he died, but at the same time, there was a selfish part of me that wanted him back, that didn’t want to surrender him.”
You may feel relief because the burden of responsibility has been lifted with the death of your loved one. Don’t feel guilty about your relief. This response is natural and expected, particularly after a long struggle or illness.
“We count those blessed who endured. You have heard of the endurance of Job and have seen the outcome of the Lord’s dealings, that the Lord is full of compassion and is merciful” (James 5:11 NASB).
Lord God, my feelings confuse and somewhat embarrass me. Thank you for granting me endurance, and please continue to guide me on my journey through grief. Amen.